Congratulations! You’re having a baby! Whether your baby is coming from your body, a surrogate, or from a complete stranger you’ll never know, I congratulate you on taking this journey! It is full of ups, downs, sideways turns, and upside down moments where you are running blind next to a self imposed cliff of failure. There are thousands of books and articles and movies and classes you can devour to brighten your path…but where do you start?
I’m not here to sell you a way of parenting, or give you all the answers, as honestly that doesn’t work. Parenting is about finding your own answers, your own solutions, your own style. Only you will know what is best, and sometimes that means not having a clue and figuring it out on the way. This article is about getting you started on your journey. About where you go after you know a baby is coming into your life.

